{"product_id":"escaping-enemy-mode-how-our-brains-unite-or-divide-us-by-jim-wilder-ray-woolridge-michael-j-meese","title":"Escaping Enemy Mode: How Our Brains Unite or Divide Us | Jim Wilder, Ray Woolridge, Michael J Meese","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eWho’s your biggest enemy? Possibly you?\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eEnemy Mode is an immensely damaging brain state that occurs in everyday life. In enemy mode, a person sees and experiences others as adversaries. Living in this mode poisons family and community bonds. It contributes to social stress, business failure, divorce, alienation, domestic violence, crime, racism, and international violence. Social media magnifies the impact of enemy mode toward almost all topics or persons imaginable.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eLongtime author and neuropsychologist Dr. Jim Wilder explains how the brain develops enemy mode and searches for ways to get the brain to “refriend.” Since a brain in enemy mode cannot tell when someone is trying to help, it rejects or attacks its allies, including refrienders. Wilder puts his years of research to the test in assessing the impossible task put forth by the Christian faith: to love one’s enemies.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eAfter being trained in enemy mode through the military, business, and even friendships, retired Brigadier General Ray Woolridge comes alongside Wilder, bringing the reader on his journey of learning to refriend. He interviews leaders in sports, business, the military, law enforcement, politics, health care, and education, assessing the enemy mode impact on lives and culture.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eCan Wilder and Woolridge figure out how enemy mode works and craft a solution? And can they get people and institutions to implement those solutions? This book is for all who desire to be better equipped to face the barrage of daily relational stressors that come at them. It’s for all who long for more harmonious relationships at home, in the workplace, and in their communities.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cul class=\"marker:text-quiet list-disc pl-8\"\u003e\n\u003cli class=\"py-0 my-0 prose-p:pt-0 prose-p:mb-2 prose-p:my-0 [\u0026amp;\u0026gt;p]:pt-0 [\u0026amp;\u0026gt;p]:mb-2 [\u0026amp;\u0026gt;p]:my-0\"\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"my-2 [\u0026amp;+p]:mt-4 [\u0026amp;_strong:has(+br)]:inline-block [\u0026amp;_strong:has(+br)]:pb-2\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eChristian Living \/ Spiritual Growth\u003c\/strong\u003e – The book explores themes of loving one’s enemies and healing relationships, grounded in Christian faith and practice.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli class=\"py-0 my-0 prose-p:pt-0 prose-p:mb-2 prose-p:my-0 [\u0026amp;\u0026gt;p]:pt-0 [\u0026amp;\u0026gt;p]:mb-2 [\u0026amp;\u0026gt;p]:my-0\"\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"my-2 [\u0026amp;+p]:mt-4 [\u0026amp;_strong:has(+br)]:inline-block [\u0026amp;_strong:has(+br)]:pb-2\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePsychology \/ Neurotheology\u003c\/strong\u003e – It discusses how brain states influence human behavior and relationships, combining neuroscience with theological concepts.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli class=\"py-0 my-0 prose-p:pt-0 prose-p:mb-2 prose-p:my-0 [\u0026amp;\u0026gt;p]:pt-0 [\u0026amp;\u0026gt;p]:mb-2 [\u0026amp;\u0026gt;p]:my-0\"\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"my-2 [\u0026amp;+p]:mt-4 [\u0026amp;_strong:has(+br)]:inline-block [\u0026amp;_strong:has(+br)]:pb-2\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eSelf-Help \/ Personal Development\u003c\/strong\u003e – It offers practical insights for overcoming relational stress and cultivating empathy.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli class=\"py-0 my-0 prose-p:pt-0 prose-p:mb-2 prose-p:my-0 [\u0026amp;\u0026gt;p]:pt-0 [\u0026amp;\u0026gt;p]:mb-2 [\u0026amp;\u0026gt;p]:my-0\"\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"my-2 [\u0026amp;+p]:mt-4 [\u0026amp;_strong:has(+br)]:inline-block [\u0026amp;_strong:has(+br)]:pb-2\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eSocial Commentary\u003c\/strong\u003e – The authors examine how “enemy mode” affects society, institutions, and culture, touching on broader moral and social implications.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e","brand":"Jim Wilder, Ray Woolridge, Michael J Meese","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":51047016759602,"sku":"9780802425034","price":17.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0807\/4772\/5106\/files\/9780802425034.jpg?v=1775614952","url":"https:\/\/starryferrybooks.com\/products\/escaping-enemy-mode-how-our-brains-unite-or-divide-us-by-jim-wilder-ray-woolridge-michael-j-meese","provider":"Starry Ferry Books 星渡書店","version":"1.0","type":"link"}